Learn how to win back a lost love and keep him/her forever.
If you’ve realized, too late, that the person you were with was the ‘one’ and you want to learn how to win back a lost love, I may be able to help. To a large degree,the way you handle this situation will depend on why the relationship ended and what you said and did. The worse you acted the harder it’s going to be to convince your ex to give you another chance.
Here are a couple things you should keep in mind:
1. If you haven’t had much contact, or any contact, with your ex for an extended period of time, call them. Keep things casual, tell them you were thinking of them and you wanted to know how they were doing. If they seem happy to hear form you suggest the two of you get together. Keep it casual, don’t make it sound like a date at this point.
2. Try to spend some time with your ex, in a friendly way. Show them that you’ve changed and remind them, by actions and not words, how much fun the two of you used to have together. Don’t talk about all the problems you had, just concentrate on getting reacquainted.
Just spending time together is a great way to see if there is still a spark there. If there is, things will most likely move naturally to a reconciliation and if theres not than at least you can move on knowing that you tried. Before you do any of this though you need to make sure you have grown enough so that you don’t repeat the mistakes you made the first time. Before you contact your ex, evaluate the person you are and make sure that you’re mature enough to try to enter into this relationship again… after all, you weren’t the first time.
Don’t make things harder than they need to be. One of the easiest ways on how to win back a lost love is simply to spend time together and allow each of you to fall back in love. It happened once, it can happen again.