Getting back with an Ex, How Do I Go About It?
The worst thing is to realize that the person you love is the person that you just broke up with. That is something that happens all too often. If you find yourself in this predicament, than I have some advice that may be able to help with getting back with an ex. I don’t know for sure that it will work for you, but what have you got to lose?
The first thing you need to think about is why the relationship ended. Did it end because of you and something you did or said? If so, are you willing to accept that responsibility and change the way you behave if you do get your ex back? If you’re not willing to change you might as well save both you and your ex a lot of hassle and just forget about getting them back and allowing them to move on and find someone who will work at a relationship.
If you have accepted your responsibility and have made changes and feel like you’re ready to commit to that person again, you should call them. Don’t text, but call. Don’t ask them to get back together or make it sound like the two of you are going on a date. Instead make it more casual, like two old friends getting together for coffee or lunch.
If your ex agrees, you’re halfway there. Just keep things friendly and easy. Don’t bring up your past and don’t talk about getting together again. Just enjoy spending time together and let your ex see for themselves the changes you’ve made. More than likely they will be the one to suggest getting together again once they see how you’ve matured.
If your ex isn’t interested either in meeting or getting back together, you have to prove that you’ve changed, and let them go. Wish them well and say your goodbyes and then walk away with your head held high and your dignity intact.
I wish you the best when it comes to getting back with an ex, these simple tips can help you out and give you something to think about before you jump in feet first.