Getting back with your ex, Want to Know How?
After having gone through a breakup it’s common to start having second thoughts about ending the relationship. If this describes you and you’re thinking that the two of you should get back together, you may want some advice on getting back with your ex. Without good advice to follow you could do something that will push them away from you for good.
For the most part, the way you go about reconnecting with your ex will depend on what caused the breakup in the first place. For example, if the two of you broke up because you cheated, it’s going to be very difficult to get your ex to ever trust you (and risk getting hurt like that) again. If your breakup was for more subtle reasons you’ll have a better chance of making things work if you are able to figure out the core problems and work to make some much needed changes.
No matter what caused the breakup your first step should be to leave your ex alone and spend some time on you. Try to improve the person you are so that no matter what happens with your ex you’ll be a better partner in your relationships. If you get mad too often, or if you’re condescending and mocking, etc, these are the issues you need to take time to recognize and change.
Once you’re on the path to becoming a better person you should call your ex and ask them to meet you. Don’t talk about a reconciliation just keep it casual and friendly. After a while of hanging out together they should be able to see the changes in you. Hopefully if they do see changes they’ll be very receptive to giving things another try.
I hope I’ve given you some ideas of how to start getting back with your ex. Please don’t make the mistake of thinking it will happen overnight or that it won’t take some effort on your part. If you and your ex don’t figure out the problems that caused the breakup in the first place you’ll never have a good relationship even if you do get back together.